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inglor
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 Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 9:00 am Post subject: NC17 poll |
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In light of the recent debates, I'll try to bring this forum back to why we are here, pervy discussion and occasionally Tolkien issues. And this relates to Tolkien how? To be better informed when writing 
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Andreth
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*sighs dramatically* You're still hung up on that size thing, aren't you? 
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NancyBrooke
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 9:26 am Post subject: |
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Tough call ... especially as you usually have an indication of one before the other; in my (limited?) experience the guy rarely drops trou before the kissing starts.
However, as it's data you want data you shall have.
If pressed  I think I'd have to go tongue skills  , the theory being that great oral sex and okay vaginal sex would be better than lousy or no oral sex and sore-making vaginal sex, no matter how good or bad. And it's rare I want one without the other. I guess I'm saying I prefer some oral stimulation before penetration - guy doesn't have to get me off, but it's nice to get me started  .
You're assuming, I think, that size equates to good sex; that's not always the case. I once had sex with a guy of average girth but (I swear to god) probably 10 or 11 inches (didn't stop to measure). Not so great - he had to hold his body at a distance in order to make the whole thing work!! there just wasn't enough room ...
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Andreth
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 9:34 am Post subject: |
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I'm afraid I voted size. Kissing is nice, but not to be crass (yeah right), if tongue skills are lacking, a woman always has her own B team, i.e. a pair of well-practiced digits.
I dated a guy for a while who had excellent oral skills but only a 5 inch penis. One of those 'tweeners where it's just enough to know it's there but not really enough to deliver. The sex was always disappointing. Luckily he had a great personality.
To be blunt, clitoral orgasms are great but in all reality, I can do that myself. I prefer to have a guy who's packing enough to give me something I can't do myself. And IMO sex toys aren't the same, no matter how realistic. Accept no substitute.
I'm not saying a guy has to be John Holmes, but a solid 7-8 inches with a nice girth is definitely my preference. Of course, that's just me. |
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miriel361
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Well I went for tongue skills.
Not really a size-issue girl. Not keen on really small. I mean I like to know that something is happening down there, but on the other hand it doesn't have to be HUGE.
It's the whole package thing. If he's clever enough to make me laugh, he's clever enough to keep me entertained in bed.
Agree with Andreth that a girl has her own fingers if worse comes to worse or to add salt to the roast. But on the other hand, rubbing yourself isn't the same as being licked. Like comparing chocolate cake to carrot cake.
So Ingolf - while we're on this size thing..... big boobs or little boobs. The real thing or silicon? |
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Andreth
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 2:31 pm Post subject: |
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But on the other hand, rubbing yourself isn't the same as being licked.
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mistressofbucklebury
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 2:43 pm Post subject: |
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I voted tongue skills
I'm only a little hobbit size person myself so so the whole size issue takes on a different perspective to me  ... I guess it's all relative.
I don't think I'd ever get tired of a talent tongue... so many different ways to put a smile on my face
I'm a big believer in foreplay (what girl isn't) and if a guy doesn't know how to push my buttons with a few (okay more than a few!!) well placed kisses and licks (and maybe even bites ) then it wouldn't matter how big he was cos it just wouldn't happen....
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 3:18 pm Post subject: |
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Tongue... totally!
But everyone here already knows I favor talent over brawn...
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inglor
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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| miriel361 wrote: |
So Inglor - while we're on this size thing..... big boobs or little boobs. The real thing or silicon? |
Big Boobs or little boobs, silicon or real? Let me put it this way, when I used to go to strip bars, the girl with the most proportional and natural looking boobs got my money.
As for sex? too big is more of a negative than too small
I'm so glad we're back on topic (sex)
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I'd just like to add my two cents: yes, tongue, yes, natural boobs.
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Maram68
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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Tongue kills and natural boobs.
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Andreth
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It looks like I'm the minority. *sighs dramatically* I guess that means all the well-endowed men will have to be sent to me. It's a sacrifice, I know, but somebody has to do it.
And good to know about the natural boobs. I've always wondered how those boobs that look like if you put a needle in them they'd bust like an overfilled ballon could be attractive to men. They just look painful to me. Ouch. |
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Viv
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| Andreth wrote: | | I've always wondered how those boobs that look like if you put a needle in them they'd bust like an overfilled ballon could be attractive to men. They just look painful to me. Ouch. |
Plus, the rumour is that nipple sensitivity in artifical boobage is fer crap. There's not a dude in the world whose attention is worth a lack of nipple sensitivity! |
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Dangit, I hate being the token innocent virgin on a board of funny pervets. 
By the way Viv, I'm currently wearing a T-shirt with that exact picture on it. It's like my favorite shirt ever.
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inglor
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| Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2004 5:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Viv wrote: |
Plus, the rumour is that nipple sensitivity in artifical boobage is fer crap. There's not a dude in the world whose attention is worth a lack of nipple sensitivity! |
I've heard that one myself.
On a similar note, I had a gynocologist tell me that he had found that women with smaller breasts tended to have orgasms easier and stronger. (not from personal experience, doctor talk) I have experience with the opposite. I dated a girl in college who had DD's, she had never experienced an orgasm, ever and I wasn't her first or fifth person she'd been with. And trust me I tried, every trick/position/maneuver I could think of. I even tried some stuff I found in sex books.
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