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| Is your fanfiction writing and reading a secret? |
| YES! No one knows. |
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4% |
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| Only my closest friends/family know |
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34% |
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| I told my friends/family but I don't think they paid attention/remember |
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34% |
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| Only my significant other knows |
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| Oh, I'll tell anyone - I don't care! |
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Alassante Virtual Village Mod

Joined: 10 Dec 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Hitchhiking to Rivendell
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:14 am Post subject: Fanfiction-Do your friends/family know? Is it a 'lil secret? |
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So - to go along with the geeky thread, how many of you tell people that you read/write fanfiction? Are your LOTR action figures hidden in the closet, beside your swords and elf cloaks? If you write smut, is that your big secret?
If your writing isn't a secret - what reactions have you gotten so far? _________________ Nagzul #2 - The Nazgul of Shmoove
Crucio! Because stupidity should be painful!
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elea24

Joined: 20 Aug 2007 Posts: 80 Location: UK
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:44 am Post subject: |
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| Only my parents and sister know and their reaction was just 'Oh, um, right...okay then'. |
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DarkElfChilde

Joined: 23 Aug 2004 Posts: 1013 Location: I'm located somewhere
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:12 am Post subject: |
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Smut is my big secret...only a few people know I write it in my stories...fan fics or my novel...
I used to keep my figures on display...but I needed room on my desk and dresser for my sword and knife collection.
Well, none of my family members know I write fan fics but they do know I write. lol. _________________ [ ] |
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Haleth

Joined: 27 Sep 2003 Posts: 538 Location: The ruins of Tharbad.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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Are you kidding? Most people don't know that I write, let alone write fan fiction. They already think I'm strange enough my having to explain it! _________________ Books would not be read, and pipes would not smoke. The day slipped out of his hand, running aimlessly to waste. JRR Tolkien. The Lost Road |
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dolarabee Site Admin

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Posts: 175 Location: Sydney, Australia
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 6:22 pm Post subject: |
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It was a little hard to answer the poll. Can't really say that only the closest of family and friends know about this. And can't say that I just told everyone across the board. It's a mish-mash of both. That the ones I told might have forgotten/didn't really compute? That's highly likely. And I don't think anyone, bar hubby and one close friend, knows about the smut - except other writers, whom, over time, have become friends.
do. _________________ Je sais de la vie qu'elle se termine souvent au lit,
Et que d'autres ont bien plus de chance trépassent de rire ou de jouissance,
Mais pire que la mort qui vient c'est l'amour qui ne vient jamais.
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NeumeIndil

Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 1084 Location: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:35 pm Post subject: |
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Only close friends, and a few of them have been jerk enough to razz me about it, but for the most part it's just ignored. (Which is a good thing. I like only having 'Net critics to worry about instead of friends in daily life bugging me for updates or second guessing what I've written. I do enough of that on my own!) _________________ An Infinite Source of Pervy Wisdom. |
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Viv Challenge Admin

Joined: 24 Apr 2003 Posts: 71 Location: Texas
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 11:19 am Post subject: |
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I'd love to know someone offline who gave a crap what I wrote, fanfiction or not. But that just isn't the case. Everyone knows that I write (and edit), so they all send me their attempts, but nobody reads me or cares particularly what I write. *shrug*
Reading over, I think that sounds bitter. But I'm not. It's just the way things are. Like being very into football or something when no one else around shares your passion. |
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NierielRaina

Joined: 05 Sep 2006 Posts: 50 Location: Texas
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 2:48 pm Post subject: I can't keep secrets... |
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Oh, I've not ever bothered by who knows I write fanfiction. My family knows. Many of them peruse my stories from time to time and compliment me on them. My co-workers found out I read it when I was taking printed stories to work to read on my down time. One finally asked if I wrote it as well and I just said, "Yep." Several of them now ask to read my latest...especially if it's smut. LOL!
But yes, there are those who roll their eyes or snicker and I just really don't care. Fanfiction is such a large part of my life and my interests that it often holds more weight to me than the idiots who look down on me for it. Most people, however, even if they don't think fanfiction is serious writing (very few of them), are polite enough to understand it's something I love and don't make fun or belittle me for it. Indeed, most of my family and friends encourage me in it as well as giving gentle shoves towards writing original fiction.  |
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NeumeIndil

Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 1084 Location: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 9:24 pm Post subject: Re: I can't keep secrets... |
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| NierielRaina wrote: |
But yes, there are those who roll their eyes or snicker and I just really don't care. Fanfiction is such a large part of my life and my interests that it often holds more weight to me than the idiots who look down on me for it. Most people, however, even if they don't think fanfiction is serious writing (very few of them), are polite enough to understand it's something I love and don't make fun or belittle me for it. |
Unfortunately since one of my majors in college was creative writing, my friends expect that while I'm working a minimum wage + benefits job to pay the bills, I'm "supposed" to be turning into the next Carson McCullers or Wendy Wasserstein, typing away feverishly into the night after 9.5 hrs on my feet 5 days a week. When I've told some of them that yes, I do still regularly stay up until 2AM writing, only it's LotR fan fic, they're disappointed and, in one case, directly ridiculed me for it. "Oh! Are you daydreaming about fucking elves because you can't get laid for real?" "No, actually. Horse Lords, ya' dip shit!"  _________________ An Infinite Source of Pervy Wisdom. |
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NierielRaina

Joined: 05 Sep 2006 Posts: 50 Location: Texas
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 9:48 pm Post subject: Re: I can't keep secrets... |
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| NeumeIndil wrote: | Unfortunately since one of my majors in college was creative writing, my friends expect that while I'm working a minimum wage + benefits job to pay the bills, I'm "supposed" to be turning into the next Carson McCullers or Wendy Wasserstein, typing away feverishly into the night after 9.5 hrs on my feet 5 days a week. When I've told some of them that yes, I do still regularly stay up until 2AM writing, only it's LotR fan fic, they're disappointed and, in one case, directly ridiculed me for it. "Oh! Are you daydreaming about fucking elves because you can't get laid for real?" "No, actually. Horse Lords, ya' dip shit!"  |
I'm afraid if someone made a comment such as that to me, they would no longer be counted among my friends. That is out of line and uncalled for behavior, not to mention downright RUDE! *fumes* I'm so sorry you have had to endure that.
There are a couple family members of mine that are disappointed that I have not pursued original fiction writing (or in my mom's case, she thinks I should go to nursing homes and write little old lady's stories), but I have told them that I'll only do that if the muse comes to me. I'm not certain I would enjoy writing for money. Once a hobby becomes a job, often much of the enjoyment goes out the window.
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dolarabee Site Admin

Joined: 21 Apr 2003 Posts: 175 Location: Sydney, Australia
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 10:15 pm Post subject: Re: I can't keep secrets... |
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| NeumeIndil wrote: | | "Oh! Are you daydreaming about fucking elves because you can't get laid for real?" |
Wow. Incredibly harsh.
I find that unless they're folks I meant online, most don't even know fanfiction exists, let alone what it is exactly.
do. _________________ Je sais de la vie qu'elle se termine souvent au lit,
Et que d'autres ont bien plus de chance trépassent de rire ou de jouissance,
Mais pire que la mort qui vient c'est l'amour qui ne vient jamais.
~ Daniel Bélanger |
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RobinKa

Joined: 29 Mar 2005 Posts: 534 Location: Wherever I may roam
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Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2009 1:36 am Post subject: |
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My dear friend and co-worker is a Tolkien geek and writes f-fiction in English too, so we have a lot to talk about at work.  _________________ With Beleg and... Thingol holding the rear, manfully. The Virtual Village still lives.
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NeumeIndil

Joined: 06 Jun 2005 Posts: 1084 Location: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2009 2:11 am Post subject: Re: I can't keep secrets... |
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| NierielRaina wrote: |
I'm afraid if someone made a comment such as that to me, they would no longer be counted among my friends. That is out of line and uncalled for behavior, not to mention downright RUDE! *fumes* |
The conversation we'd been having right before that comment was about my long time lack of... companionship. (In context I didn't find it worth unfriending him.) It was also, however, the rudest thing he's ever said to me, even though it was meant in jest, and I gave him hell for it. No worries.
All the same though, it serves to illustrate the attitude toward fan fiction among the American-minded writers that think someone else playing in their sand box, however far away from the author, should be worth a law suit. Intellectual property rights are a hot topic in those kinds of circles, and fan fic treads on those in some people's minds.  _________________ An Infinite Source of Pervy Wisdom. |
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Alassante Virtual Village Mod

Joined: 10 Dec 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Hitchhiking to Rivendell
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Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:21 am Post subject: Re: I can't keep secrets... |
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| NeumeIndil wrote: | "Oh! Are you daydreaming about fucking elves because you can't get laid for real?" "No, actually. Horse Lords, ya' dip shit!"  |
My ex husband used to give me a hard time about writing 'elf porn'. I think he was just bitter because he wasn't getting any or inspiring me to write anything about him.  _________________ Nagzul #2 - The Nazgul of Shmoove
Crucio! Because stupidity should be painful!
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NancyBrooke Challenge Admin
Joined: 11 May 2003 Posts: 160 Location: In a motel 6 by the airport
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Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:40 am Post subject: |
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For a long time only my husband knew and, while he was supportive, he almost never read my stuff. I had to tell some friends during the writing of "Devours". It was such an undertaking, and I wanted writing and content support. I have a friend who is a former newspaper editor who was very supportive, and another who is a war-gamer and tolkien fan - who better to act as advisor on the battle for Osgiliath?
Fortunately, I have some close geeky friends and a geeky husband (although geeky in a motor- propellor-head way), but mostly I don't tell. I don't want to deal with the stigma etc. _________________ NB Duchess of WHY TF Cant'chu Punctuate, First Duchess of F*&(ing &*ll yur comma placement sux!
Nazgul #3 in charge of ducking & sniggering
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