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Thuriniel
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 665 Location: Watching the purple sky fly over me ...
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 2:24 pm Post subject: First Time |
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I guess I'm endangering myself to be thought a pervy for asking this question ... but then I also believe I'm in good company and this is the place to ask .
I've been reading fanfiction for two years now, mostly in the R/NC-17 elf-centric arena. I've noticed that when it comes to someone's first time sexual experience, it is always the female who is a virgin. I think that only once I've read the opposite; a male's first time with an experienced female (note that I'm not referring to slash ... plenty to pick and choose then ).
So, why is this? Has anyone read any good "male first time" fics? Or better said ... are there ANY out there that don't deal with a slashy first encounter?
And ... am I a pervvy for asking this ? _________________ ~ boe an phân pedi ‘lam dadui ~
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sindohte

Joined: 13 May 2003 Posts: 1621 Location: Rubbing up against an Elf
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 2:54 pm Post subject: |
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Well I haven't read anything like that in the fanfic realm. However if you want to read an awesome futuristic romance about an experienced older woman with a handsome male virgin, RUN to the bookstore and buy Ritual of Proof by Dara Joy. It is a humorous, well written novel, with a deflowering scene involving the virginal male that you have to read to believe. _________________ abandon thought, and let the dream descend... |
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inglor

Joined: 26 Apr 2004 Posts: 853 Location: Not here, not there, not anywhere
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 3:26 pm Post subject: |
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I wouldn't exactly say pervy... maybe just a little bent
Then again so am I b/c I would like to see some of that too. BTW I don't recall reading a non-slash deflowering or at least none that I can remember...
Inglor _________________ Hi, My name is Inglor and I am a Tolkien Geek (sub-species: Silgeek)
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Viv Challenge Admin

Joined: 24 Apr 2003 Posts: 71 Location: Texas
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:34 pm Post subject: |
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I can't remember the title, but Mary Balogh (my all-time favorite historical romance writer) covered this scenario very well. It's always been something I was interested in writing but have never felt that I could equal her care or quality. Maybe someday.
Would you be interested in making this an OSA challenge? |
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sindohte

Joined: 13 May 2003 Posts: 1621 Location: Rubbing up against an Elf
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:36 pm Post subject: |
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Ooo that would be a tempting challenge indeed. The only thing that would concern me is that everyone would try to deflower Legolas  _________________ abandon thought, and let the dream descend... |
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Thuriniel
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 665 Location: Watching the purple sky fly over me ...
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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| Viv wrote: |
Would you be interested in making this an OSA challenge? |
You bet !
I rough drafted one on the airplane on my way to Spain ... but it's not readable yet ! _________________ ~ boe an phân pedi ‘lam dadui ~
~ everyone should speak a second language ~ |
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Thuriniel
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 665 Location: Watching the purple sky fly over me ...
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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| sindohte wrote: | Ooo that would be a tempting challenge indeed. The only thing that would concern me is that everyone would try to deflower Legolas  |
Well, as long as it's not a male deflowering Legolas, I think it would be a first in the realm of fanfic !
Thanks for your reading suggestions, all of you! A trip to the bookstore is long overdue ! _________________ ~ boe an phân pedi ‘lam dadui ~
~ everyone should speak a second language ~ |
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Thuriniel
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 665 Location: Watching the purple sky fly over me ...
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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| inglor wrote: | I wouldn't exactly say pervy... maybe just a little bent
Then again so am I b/c I would like to see some of that too. BTW I don't recall reading a non-slash deflowering or at least none that I can remember...
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I'm glad I'm not alone ...
I do think I'm a bit bent, that's for sure ! _________________ ~ boe an phân pedi ‘lam dadui ~
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Amlee

Joined: 05 Jul 2004 Posts: 370 Location: Alabama
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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I have read one on here but I'm not sure if some of you will like it. First of all it's a girl gets sucked into Middle Earth and Legolas was the male virgin. If anyone is interested I think I can find it. Might take me a bit, but I am willing to look for anyone interested.
The concept was funny to me, because I just had a hard time seeing Legolas as the blushing 2000 plus year old virign and Aragorn the all knowing macho male giving Legolas advice. |
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DarkElfChilde

Joined: 23 Aug 2004 Posts: 1013 Location: I'm located somewhere
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 5:30 pm Post subject: |
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I can see it now:
Legolas: "Uhm, Aragorn. Can I ask you something?"
Aragorn: "Sure, my friend! What is it?"
Legolas: -shifty eyes- "Uhh, can you give me some advice on how to...well, you know...?" -coughs nervously-
Aragorn: -blinks- "What are you talking about?"
Legolas: "You know???"
Aragorn: -raises brow-
Legolas: -stares- "You know????"
Aragorn: "What?"
Legolas: "THE BIRDS AND THE BEES MAN!"
Aragorn: -starts to laugh as everyone stares at Legolas-
Legolas: - twitches nervously-
(( Is this the end???? What will Legolas do next???? Find out next time on Dark Elf Childe's Showcase 3000 - end transmission - ))
Your friendly elf,
Dark Elf Childe _________________ [ ] |
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Amlee

Joined: 05 Jul 2004 Posts: 370 Location: Alabama
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Posted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 5:36 pm Post subject: |
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LMAO! Yup that just about sums it up for me also.  |
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Sorcia

Joined: 15 Jan 2004 Posts: 197 Location: Gods, Sean in glasses, how dishy
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Posted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 1:20 am Post subject: |
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I did read one about Faramir, called Closer To Fine, written by Alon and housed over at Henneh Annun. Its not a bad story, cute in an oddly sexual way There is one here, called The Captains Last Gift written by Lady Aranel that deals with Legolas and the fact that he has yet to experience 'body union' . Its a WIP but quite good writing.
Cheers _________________ "If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun."-Katharine Hepburn |
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Eyborg
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 429 Location: Reykjavík, Iceland
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Posted: Sun Oct 10, 2004 4:56 pm Post subject: |
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This is an interesting topic, and yes, it makes me think... I've read quite a number of LOTR smut stories, and if somebody is a virgin, it's always the female... or in other words, the female is a virgin most of the time, but the male NEVER is! It's almost as if a male virgin is a definite no-no in stories! I have a feeling that many fanfic writers who write smut don't see male virgins as particularly "sexy" or "provoking"... they prefer "experienced" males *shrug* Oh well... But I for my part find the thought of a male virgin quite fascinating (not that I've ever deflowered anyone, and I probably never will)... and face it, all men were virgins once... even James Bond. (Wonder who deflowered him? Hmmm... could be a good bunny for a Bond fanfic, eh...)
BTW since I'm a pervy hobbit fancier, I should perhaps consider writing a fic that tells about Merry or Pippin losing their virginity... that is, of course, if Silvermoonlady won't do it first.  |
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SilverMoonLady

Joined: 14 Jul 2003 Posts: 1201 Location: Breaking in a Brandybuck... *wicked grin*
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2004 5:40 am Post subject: |
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Well, having 'deflowered' several males myself, I suppose I could, but I'd have to find a really good story to tell around it, and get over my own 'sweetness' hang-up.  _________________ Suffering an again off again connection with life...
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Thuriniel
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 665 Location: Watching the purple sky fly over me ...
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2004 6:48 am Post subject: |
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| Eyborg wrote: | | It's almost as if a male virgin is a definite no-no in stories! I have a feeling that many fanfic writers who write smut don't see male virgins as particularly "sexy" or "provoking"... they prefer "experienced" males *shrug* Oh well... But I for my part find the thought of a male virgin quite fascinating |
I find it quite fascinating too and I think this situation should be fixed! Everyone has a first time ... as you mentioned, even James Bond ! _________________ ~ boe an phân pedi ‘lam dadui ~
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