[silverglass]

I've read that Elves marry at least one year after betrothal - what do they do in this year? Are there any pre-marriage customs that have to take place in that year?

Thanks!

[NierielRaina]

The LACE (laws & customs of the eldar) do not specify what happens during the betrothal period...which was often longer than one year though never less. (bummer huh?) they exchanged silver rings at a ceremony to signify the betrothal & these were returned and cherished at the binding ceremony where they exchanged slender bands of gold worn on the right index finger.

Quoting from Lace..
"After the betrothal it was the part of the betrothed to appoint the time of their wedding, when at least one year had passed. Then at a feast, again shared by the two houses, the marriage was celebrated."

So at some point all that had to be planned *grin* but I assume life just went on as usual...(remember...no hanky panky before marriage! elves were chaste until wed and it was the actual joiningof bodies that sealed a marriage...SEX=MARRIAGE!)

NiRi