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sindohte
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| dolarabee wrote: | | sindohte wrote: | | While a pitcher without a catcher is just aiming his balls at nothing... |
So you're saying a male character could be aiming (and emptying) his balls at nothing?  Sorry. Just had to slip that in... weird Saturday night mood and all...
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I know that was slightly crazy imagery, but I was watching a baseball game at the time I was writing. 
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miriel361
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| Posted: Mon May 24, 2004 2:20 pm Post subject: |
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| inglor wrote: | OOPS, not yet:
For instance, Oral Sex: in my experience and conversations, most women don't enjoy giving it as much men do, and enjoy recieving it more than men do
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And I would have said the opposite.  (In my humble opinion and experience)
Inglor, in case i haven't said it before, it is great having you and your opinions around. |
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BittenBuggy
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| Posted: Mon May 24, 2004 2:30 pm Post subject: |
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| inglor wrote: |
As a male reader/writer I have a tendency to be more visceral, especially when there is a long build up to the actual business. BUT, I think men (at least me and my friends), more so than women, REALLY get off when their partner is enjoying the situation. When you can sit back and your partner's eyes cross, toes curl and shout things that they would be embarrassed about is better than anything. Knowing that you did that to to them is more satisfying than having it done to you. Sometimes it's an ego thing, sometimes it's a caring thing, but it is still a much more gratifying experience when you know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that your partner is completely (underline, boldface, italics, !!!!) satisfied.
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Ah... don't you just love the male species? When do we ever get the short end of the stick? (Ack, more bad puns)
| miriel361 wrote: | | inglor wrote: |
For instance, Oral Sex: in my experience and conversations, most women don't enjoy giving it as much men do, and enjoy recieving it more than men do
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And I would have said the opposite. (In my humble opinion and experience)
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Wow Miriel, what you talkin' bout? 
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inglor
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| Posted: Mon May 24, 2004 3:31 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks Miriel Its nice to be wanted and appreciated
I reread my post and perhaps I need to clarify:
What I mean is that I believe men are more likely to enjoy giving oral sex than women enjoy giving it. If you find that you personally contradict this statment please form a line to my front   
Seriously though, the women I have had the experience with have never been enthusiastic about performing it, not saying they didn't like to do it and did it out of obligation or just because I liked it. But did it because they found it sexually and physically gratifying.
Is any of this making sense???
Well what do you know, yet another thread deteriorates to deliberating various sexual aspects
I will try to redirect said thread by bringing my post to the matter at hand (DOWN PUN! BAD PUN! *smacks Pun on the nose w/newspaper*)
In my, as yet small smut writing experience (I SAID DOWN) Something I have noticed about taking time to write good smut, you have to leave it a while and let it rest. When you go back to it, you see things that you didn't see before and new ideas pop up (*reaches for rolled up paper again*).
BTW, This thread has been very insightful and helpful
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sindohte
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| inglor wrote: | My experience is that I have to write and then read it then add more to it, write-read, write-read, building a scene a little at a time, like building a wall with bricks, you don't throw them all up at once. Each brick has its own place and order, and must be checked that it fits properly and is aligned. And then you have to step back and check your each course to see if it is straight and level, otherwise you can build a wall, or scene in this metaphor, that just doesn't hold up and leaves the reader dissatisfied. While a well thought out and carerfully constructed scene can leave a reader flushed, breathless and looking hungrily about the house for thier significant other (or nearest cylindrical object  )
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Ooo what a nice image. I am visualizing a nicely bronzed bricklayer working outside stripped naked to his waist.  Just to let you know Inglor, there are some women who love visual stimuli  BB can tell you some stories about some of the naughty crap running through my head. 
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miriel361
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First of all BB. Nice to hear you have hubbie well trained. I was speaking generally not specifically in that instance.
Inglor - this is a very odd conversation to be having with a strange (as in unknown) male on the net. Perhaps I won't tell hubby about it...
The thing about a blow job is that women can play an active rather than passive role. She is in command so to speak. That is an aphrodisiac in itself. I personally ( little ones close your ears and eyes) like the male smell - it turns me on almost as much as an accent.
Ahem back to the subject at hand .... (takes Inglor's newspaper and hits self on the head for the unnecessary bad pun) |
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sindohte
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| Posted: Mon May 24, 2004 4:04 pm Post subject: |
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| inglor wrote: |
In my, as yet small smut writing experience (I SAID DOWN) Something I have noticed about taking time to write good smut, you have to leave it a while and let it rest. When you go back to it, you see things that you didn't see before and new ideas pop up (*reaches for rolled up paper again*).
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Is that a nice way of trying to say that you have to be in the mood for writing smut? When it comes to non-smut writing I can usually crank out something, even if I am not terribly happy with the results. However when it comes to smutty goodness, if I'm not in the mood I don't even bother trying to write. I find that I cannot fake it
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BittenBuggy
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| Posted: Mon May 24, 2004 4:11 pm Post subject: |
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Ooo what a nice image. I am visualizing a nicely bronzed bricklayer working outside stripped naked to his waist. Just to let you know Inglor, there are some women who love visual stimuli BB can tell you some stories about some of the naughty crap running through my head. |
Yes, I definately appriciate visuals. But Sind and I are the exceptions I guess.
And yes.... *points to Inglor* Isn't he handy to keep around? *Packs up Inglor in a convient travel-size box*
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inglor
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Yes it is Mir, don't think I will tell Mrs. Inglor either. But since it is on the net, no one can see us blush.
Glad I could be of service, Sindohte
(I think I just heard a plot bunny scamper over to the VV.)
So i can write better for the female perspective, what do you (Sindhote and BB and every other female who reads this) find most visually stimulating? Pecs, abs, butt, eyes,...elfhood ( ), what is it about the seeing male form that gets you all bothered?
Just to be fair, I will share my views on the female body: the whole frickin thing!!
Besides the obvious boobs and genitalia .You really have the advantage there, your stuff is all compact and hidden and smooth andalsdkhnaf[p089gvaq4okgaadf;l
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Sorry, got a little carried away there. Any way where was I, oh yeah, Genitalia. Our stuff is ugly and wrinkly and hard to describe as pretty, for instance, our equipment is often desrcribed as throbbing or rigid or any other adjective revolving around "hard" while your stuff is always described as variations of "soft"
Sorry for the ramble, been a while...
Butts... Butts and legs. A well formed butt and nice legs, especially calves are my cocaine/heroin/*insert addictive drug here*. Tummies are some men's thing, not a six pack though, just nice and healthy. Bony is another turnoff. Enhancements too, especially if out of proportion. Big boobs are cool and all but there is a point of diminishing returns...Yes, there is such a thing as "her boobs are too big".
It's really all about health and proportion.
A well toned woman, not muscled, but tone, with a proportional features is (to me anyway) the most beautiful thing God ever created and is proof to me that he is male.
My attention ALWAYS would (and did when I was single)go to the uninhanced women who exercise but aren't afraid of french fries.
And I think most men would agree with me. Big boobs have great shock value and really catch your eye, but the woman with the right curves in the right places is has the world at her feet.
Cold shower time
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sindohte
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| BittenBuggy wrote: | | Yes, I definately appriciate visuals. I was always very forthright in what I wanted from a guy in relationship from the time I was in highschool. By the time I got into the Marines, a guy would ask me out on a date and if he wasn't gorgeous I'd say 'Sorry, you dont meet my standards. But if you can stand on one hand and hop up and down for 6 hours I might consiter it. |
You were in the Marines? Well pick my chin up off the computer keyboard honey!!! I didn't know they made uniforms in our size  That was always my excuse why I didn't join the Army. Oh and the fact that I have very little respect for governmental authority and giving me a gun would be a very bad thing.
| Quote: | Point is -- yes, as a whole, men are much more visual. But Sind and I are the exceptions I guess.
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That is why I enjoyed Troy so much. My only complaint was that they didn't show enough skin
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So i can write better for the female perspective, what do you (Sindhote and BB and every other female who reads this) find most visually stimulating? Pecs, abs, butt, eyes,...elfhood ( ), what is it about the seeing male form that gets you all bothered?
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Personally, I am a torso-woman (Arms specifically) I like nice, long, lean (not bulky) more wirey... *rambles* arms. Bulky to me is a HUGE turnoff, I like the slimmer, toned guys. Bulky guys would probably crush the poor little BB!
Hair is another one (I dont mean body-hair, I mean as on your head) I like curls, but NOT really tight ones, just wavy, silky hair... *more rambling*
Hands is along turn on -- You can tell if a man takes care of himself by looking at his hands. No short thumbs please!
Nobody laugh -- I prefer tall men. I stand 5 feet tall, but I still enjoy men who are 6 foot or taller. Don't know why, its just a 'BB thing'
Other than that... sorry, but men's butts dont do a thing for me unless they are clothed. There is nothing funnier than a nekid man-butt. Legs, not so much. Abs to a certain extend, but I dont need a six pack to make me happy!
BB's comments on the male anatomy are now complete. Unless of course Sind makes a comment that begs me to make a joke about.
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sindohte
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| inglor wrote: | Glad I could be of service, Sindhote
(I think I just heard a plot bunny scamper over to the VV.) |
Oh yeah, there are a few bunnies hopping around in my head. One of them involves purple ribbon
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A pair of well muscled thighs makes me all warm and mushy in certain special places I once had a boyfriend who ran track and played basketball, so I am definitely a sucker for well defined legs. The back of a man's calves are also very sexy. That is why I enjoy summer so much - ahhh, the sight of well toned calf muscles. Not that I don't appreciate the rest of the male body, but I love legs.
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| Quote: | | Quote: | Point is -- yes, as a whole, men are much more visual. But Sind and I are the exceptions I guess.
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That is why I enjoyed Troy so much. My only complaint was that they didn't show enough skin |
Oh, I wanted MUCH more Orli-skin! Pitt had plenty of skin I think... But I wouldnt have minded seeing just a peek more
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inglor
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Is that a nice way of trying to say that you have to be in the mood for writing smut? When it comes to non-smut writing I can usually crank out something, even if I am not terribly happy with the results. However when it comes to smutty goodness, if I'm not in the mood I don't even bother trying to write. I find that I cannot fake it |
Sind, I'm a guy, I'm ALWAYS in the mood. I can get worked up painitng shutters. All my wife has to do is look at me right, and sometimes just be in the vacinity and things start stirring.
Writing smut is usually no problem, writing good smut that you want someone else to read, understand and be affected by, (you know the ones you read over and over, have bookmarked and highlighted) is what is hard and takes patience. *pats Pun on the head*
BB, you sure you're not a guy? .
Well actually I am sure, VERY few guys could get away with that kind of brush off and not get an earful or a red handprint on their face. I would have paid to watch you work a room.
I'm not getting a damn thing done.
Inglor
the guy who's just happy to be here talking about sex with a bunch of women he doesn't know from Adam's Cat House, I mean House Cat
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| Posted: Mon May 24, 2004 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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| inglor wrote: | | So i can write better for the female perspective, what do you (Sindhote and BB and every other female who reads this) find most visually stimulating? Pecs, abs, butt, eyes,...elfhood ( ), what is it about the seeing male form that gets you all bothered? |
Whew! [Fanning myself with my mousepad after reading this thread!]
For what it's worth, here's my two cents... If we're talking visual stimulous only here, I'd have to say arms are what I notice first...well defined ones, especially in the triceps area. That would be followed closely by chest. Again, not all muscle-bound or anything, just well-toned and defined. I think it's some sort of primitive attraction to outward signs of strength. |
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