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Thuriniel



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 2:24 pm    Post subject: First Time Reply with quote

I guess I'm endangering myself to be thought a pervy for asking this question ... but then I also believe I'm in good company and this is the place to ask Wink .

I've been reading fanfiction for two years now, mostly in the R/NC-17 elf-centric arena. I've noticed that when it comes to someone's first time sexual experience, it is always the female who is a virgin. I think that only once I've read the opposite; a male's first time with an experienced female (note that I'm not referring to slash ... plenty to pick and choose then Laughing ).

So, why is this? Has anyone read any good "male first time" fics? Or better said ... are there ANY out there that don't deal with a slashy first encounter?

And ... am I a pervvy for asking this Hmmm ?

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 2:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I haven't read anything like that in the fanfic realm. However if you want to read an awesome futuristic romance about an experienced older woman with a handsome male virgin, RUN to the bookstore and buy Ritual of Proof by Dara Joy. It is a humorous, well written novel, with a deflowering scene involving the virginal male that you have to read to believe.
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 3:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wouldn't exactly say pervy... maybe just a little bent Very Happy

Then again so am I b/c I would like to see some of that too. BTW I don't recall reading a non-slash deflowering or at least none that I can remember...

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't remember the title, but Mary Balogh (my all-time favorite historical romance writer) covered this scenario very well. It's always been something I was interested in writing but have never felt that I could equal her care or quality. Maybe someday. Smile

Would you be interested in making this an OSA challenge?
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ooo that would be a tempting challenge indeed. The only thing that would concern me is that everyone would try to deflower Legolas Laughing
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Viv wrote:

Would you be interested in making this an OSA challenge?


You bet Bunny !

I rough drafted one on the airplane on my way to Spain ... but it's not readable yet Wink !

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sindohte wrote:
Ooo that would be a tempting challenge indeed. The only thing that would concern me is that everyone would try to deflower Legolas Laughing



Well, as long as it's not a male deflowering Legolas, I think it would be a first in the realm of fanfic Laughing !

Thanks for your reading suggestions, all of you! A trip to the bookstore is long overdue Very Happy !

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 4:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

inglor wrote:
I wouldn't exactly say pervy... maybe just a little bent Very Happy

Then again so am I b/c I would like to see some of that too. BTW I don't recall reading a non-slash deflowering or at least none that I can remember...

Inglor


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I do think I'm a bit bent, that's for sure Laughing !

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 5:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have read one on here but I'm not sure if some of you will like it. First of all it's a girl gets sucked into Middle Earth and Legolas was the male virgin. If anyone is interested I think I can find it. Might take me a bit, but I am willing to look for anyone interested.


The concept was funny to me, because I just had a hard time seeing Legolas as the blushing 2000 plus year old virign and Aragorn the all knowing macho male giving Legolas advice.
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 5:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ROFL

I can see it now:

Legolas: "Uhm, Aragorn. Can I ask you something?"

Aragorn: "Sure, my friend! What is it?"

Legolas: Embarassed -shifty eyes- "Uhh, can you give me some advice on how to...well, you know...?" -coughs nervously-

Aragorn: -blinks- "What are you talking about?"

Legolas: "You know???"

Aragorn: -raises brow-

Legolas: -stares- "You know????"

Aragorn: "What?" Confused

Legolas: "THE BIRDS AND THE BEES MAN!"

Aragorn: -starts to laugh as everyone stares at Legolas-

Legolas: - twitches nervously-

(( Is this the end???? What will Legolas do next???? Find out next time on Dark Elf Childe's Showcase 3000 - end transmission - ))

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 06, 2004 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LMAO! Yup that just about sums it up for me also. Laughing
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 07, 2004 1:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I did read one about Faramir, called Closer To Fine, written by Alon and housed over at Henneh Annun. Its not a bad story, cute in an oddly sexual way Wink There is one here, called The Captains Last Gift written by Lady Aranel that deals with Legolas and the fact that he has yet to experience 'body union' Twisted Evil . Its a WIP but quite good writing.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 10, 2004 4:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is an interesting topic, and yes, it makes me think... I've read quite a number of LOTR smut stories, and if somebody is a virgin, it's always the female... or in other words, the female is a virgin most of the time, but the male NEVER is! It's almost as if a male virgin is a definite no-no in stories! I have a feeling that many fanfic writers who write smut don't see male virgins as particularly "sexy" or "provoking"... they prefer "experienced" males *shrug* Oh well... But I for my part find the thought of a male virgin quite fascinating (not that I've ever deflowered anyone, and I probably never will)... and face it, all men were virgins once... even James Bond. (Wonder who deflowered him? Hmmm... could be a good bunny for a Bond fanfic, eh...) Twisted Evil
BTW since I'm a pervy hobbit fancier, I should perhaps consider writing a fic that tells about Merry or Pippin losing their virginity... that is, of course, if Silvermoonlady won't do it first. Wink
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2004 5:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, having 'deflowered' several males myself, I suppose I could, but I'd have to find a really good story to tell around it, and get over my own 'sweetness' hang-up. Wink
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 11, 2004 6:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Eyborg wrote:
It's almost as if a male virgin is a definite no-no in stories! I have a feeling that many fanfic writers who write smut don't see male virgins as particularly "sexy" or "provoking"... they prefer "experienced" males *shrug* Oh well... But I for my part find the thought of a male virgin quite fascinating


I find it quite fascinating too and I think this situation should be fixed! Everyone has a first time ... as you mentioned, even James Bond Laughing !

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